A ‘radical change’
Of the fathers, five described the period of pregnancy as a “time of happiness, full of positive expectations about fatherhood.”
But “the fathers’ great expectations were later replaced by a very different reality of fatherhood,” the authors wrote, noting that the transition to fatherhood was, in the words of one participant, a “radical change that you just can’t imagine.”
Most fathers expressed a feeling of being overwhelmed, and three felt unready for the task, which added to their depression.
“The participants wanted to be emotionally and physically present in their child’s life, but during the time of their depression, these kind-hearted intentions changed into feelings of guilt and inadequacy, as the participants did not feel they had enough energy and mental strength to become the kind of fathers they wanted to be,” the authors wrote.
The fathers mentioned stressors they believed contributed to their PPD, including complications during their partners’ pregnancies, unplanned cesarean birth (three fathers), the partners’ difficulties with breastfeeding (five fathers), and employment-related concerns. Five reported that their partners had postpartum emotional distress.
‘Masculine norms’
A second focus of the research was to examine fathers’ help-seeking behaviors, Ms. Pedersen said.
Ultimately, all the men sought formal help, either from their general practitioners or from a health visitor, with two seeking help right after birth.
Although the men were able to recognize changes in mood and behavior in retrospect, many did not regard them as signs of depression before their diagnosis.
Most had heard of PPD, but primarily as it affects women. Three sought information online about paternal PPD but couldn’t find any.
Four participants described experiencing PPD as “taboo,” based on a “combination of false beliefs, stigma, and masculine norms,” the authors stated, since men “are supposed to be big and strong and take care of everything, and suddenly you can’t.”
The authors reported that seven participants were screened for PPD or depression by a health care professional.
“The screening was an important part of the help-seeking process, as this was the first time two of the fathers were introduced to PPD,” the authors noted.
Although the screening “had the potential to spark conversation” about PPD, it was geared toward women, and some participants did not feel it was relevant to them.
“Future research should focus on identification of educational needs about paternal PPD among both parents, health care professionals, and other professionals taking care of new families,” Ms. Pedersen said.
Michael W. says it would have been helpful if someone had prepared him and his wife for what to expect, or if there had been some type of screening. Also, he advises expectant parents to “get some real-life experience by spending time around a newborn to see what’s involved.”
Different symptoms
“We often talk about mothers suffering from PPD, so it is more normalized for mothers to bring it up or for loved ones to ask mothers about how they are doing physically and psychologically after the birth,” Craig Garfield, MD, an attending physician and founder/director of Family and Child Health innovations at Ann and Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital, Chicago, said in an interview.
For fathers, “it is not discussed as commonly, so friends and families don’t often ask dads, and dads don’t know where to turn,” said Dr. Garfield, professor of pediatrics and medical social sciences at Northwestern University, Chicago. He was not involved with the study.
He noted that symptoms in fathers might differ from those of mothers.
“I have seen fathers who are anxious or more moody than they had been prior, or more angry, and I have seen fathers who throw themselves into work or begin drinking more – all related to changes in mood and depressive symptoms in the postnatal period,” he said.
Symptoms in men may last longer than in women. Dr. Garfield’s group published a study in which they surveyed 400 mothers and fathers of premature infants in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) about depressive symptoms around the time of NICU admission, at discharge home, and then after 30 days at home.
Roughly one-third of mothers screened positive for depressive symptoms around NICU admission, as did 17% of fathers. But the mothers’ depression scores improved by discharge and 30 days after being home, while the fathers’ remained “essentially unchanged,” he said.
“Further, we found that if doctors were to screen mothers and fathers during the NICU stay – at admission or even at discharge – that would greatly improve their ability to predict who would still have depressive symptoms 1 month after going home.”
Ms. Pedersen agrees that clinicians should incorporate screening for PPD into their practices and be proactive in encouraging fathers to get help.
“Keep pushing,” she advised, as “men rarely seek help, compared to women, in matters of mental health.”
A version of this article first appeared on WebMD.com.